There is no way to know ahead of time what someone else thinks and feels and wants. There is no code for figuring it out and therefore guarantee that they will be on the same page as you before you speak up. Despite an entire magazine industry devoted to “Top Signs He’s Ready To Commit” written by people who have degrees in preserving the status quo from Dipshit University, the tools you have at your disposal for sussing out another adult’s plans, hopes, and feelings are:
Saying what you want and seeing how they respond.
Asking what they think and seeing what they say.
Saying what you want and seeing how they respond.
Asking what they think and seeing what they say.
